It’s OK to Feel Shitty & Think Shitty Things
Every time I feel a shitty emotion, I’ve been conditioned to try & escape. Why? What happens if I (gasp) just sit and feel it in all its ugly glory?
Eight Totally Random Things I Learned During My Time in California
Leaving California was bittersweet, but I'm not leaving empty-handed. Today, I’m reflecting on the biggest things I learned over the past two years – in no particular or logical order – and the wisdom I’m bringing into my New Mexican chapter.
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Our New Chapter!
My dream home is with the people (and animals) I love.
Creating a Bright Side
I've made it a mission to look on the bright side, but sometimes bright sides don't freaking exist.
Dear 16-Year-Old Me
First off, stop going in tanning beds and don't let anyone talk you into getting bangs. Trust me. With that out of the way, here are a few other things to keep in mind as you navigate the insane world of high school, college, and early adulthood.
Find What Resonates
To quote nearly all of my past boyfriends as they broke up with me, "Seriously, you're great. It's not you." But this time, these words are genuine. It's not a fault of yours if someone doesn't get what you're putting out into the universe. Humans are different.
Champagne Toasts
He wouldn’t have come within ten feet of my crazy. I was the same person back then, but he wouldn’t have been able to see it. I couldn’t even see it, after all.
5 Things I’ve Learned (and Loved) About Being Engaged
As it turns out, *being engaged* means more than addressing invitations and planning a seating chart.
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Lukewarm Is No Good
In defense of getting excited, being a try-hard, and giving a sh*t about everything.
Teaching People How To Treat You
"You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce."
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